Real Love Works....

The pineapple tarts i baked for him in 2009

REAL LOVE is all about.......about........hmmmmm.... please fill this up for me or probably after coming to the end of my post, you will find out what are my thoughts to REAL LOVE~

We are told to write about A MEMORABLE MOMENT IN MY LOVE LIFE.... but seriously, I've been thinking about it for a week and I even asked X what is the most memorable moment when he is with me but still we have no idea when/what was it.

NO it doesn't mean X don't mean anything to me or otherwise......

It simply because, there is too much memorable moment we had !!

At Esplanade 2010

Be it just a small walks in the park or mall ??!!

Lunch Buffet at JUJU Steamboat 2009

Or a wonderful dinner ??!?!

At home slacking and we start drawing 2009

Or just simply seating on the couch and watch shows/movies or just accompany each other for that day ??!!

They are all memorable to me us....


We always believe 單纯的拥有彼此,才是最辛褔的事~

Love is not about the gifts he gave , not about how many dates we went , and not about how many times of " I love you" we must express.......


We have been together for:

To be honest, I did not receive a single bouquet of flowers from him!!! When we are out for dates, most of the time we do not hold each other hands!!! We hardly kiss each other.... and I don't recall when was the last time he said "I LOVE YOU!!" But these aren't the most important things in our relationship.

REAL LOVE is about accommodating, care, trust, existence of each other and many many more ingredients to cook up a wonderful love life.

Our first oversea trip on cruise during my birthday month 2009

When I look into his eyes, I can literately feels his LOVE for me, that keep my heart flutters even till now. We do not have to express or say out the 3 important words because we can feel the love without any words to be spoken. To me, this is REAL LOVE~

Our 2nd year anniversary 2010

Sometimes, when i needed someone to listen to me, he is always there listening to every lil details and remember what i said. Even I, myself don't remember when i said, but he could tell it all that sometimes freaked me out. This is the lil details in a LOVE LIFE.

Science center trip 2008/2009

He never fails to make me laugh even when I was down or so stressed with my work. He is always there to share with me and make me better. These are his lil thoughts to show his care for me.

I remembered there was once we are listening to his mp3 and there was this song goes~

我的墙上会有，你的特别作
我的肩膀是你，专署的枕头
你说希望我懂，听你的没错
我家里所有，是你的杰作
虽然你常念很久，还把过去拿来说
那是因为你爱我，我懂
有时你会气很久，狠心不跟我联络
也是因为你爱我，我懂
因为你我愿意说，oh~baby只牵你的手
就算世界有尽头，ye~只牵你的手
哪怕诱惑那么多，只牵你的手
把我放在你心中，牵着我的手
我给的够不够，
你慢慢感受
因为你就是承诺

He suddenly held my hand tight and look at me. I felt him~ *even though he gave a jokingly look after that* This is what i thought its the REAL LOVE even if it is just a very short moment.

There are simply too many moments to be written down.* Maybe I can publish a book to describe~LOL*

REAL LOVE is not about creating. Its about developing its true self for each other. Its nothing expensive and it cannot be measured with value.

Its simply showing him/her your existence to be with her/him. Because in love life , its simply just you and him.

He is not my first love, but he is the only one that make me feel loved and protected. He don't express it to me. But through his lil and normal actions make me feel loved and happy. Its something i cannot describe and is something i cannot feel from my EXs.. Maybe like putting fireworks??? Letting go every single day~ sometime pretty ones, sometime failed ones. But once it was put together its still a beautiful scene to remember.

Shopping for materials 2010

REAL LOVE is simple.
Don't ask for too much and be content with what you have. Love him for who he is and not perfect him to who you want.
LOVE and money don't evolve together. Expressing is cheap, you don't have to be rich to make a girl happy.

Its simply lil thoughts from both parties that counts.

What do you think about REAL LOVE ??!?!?! Share it with me!